It’s tough love.
A “no-nonsense” dating coach says a woman should dump her boyfriend if he hasn’t said “I love you” within three months of dating.
Jake Maddock – who has previously made headlines for his no-nonsense approach to dating – has offered this claim in several recent videos on TikTok and Instagram, saying that women were wasting their time if they stayed with commitment-phobic guys who were not ready to express the three important ones. the words.
“If your partner doesn’t tell you very clearly “I love you” until the 12th week, then he is not your ideal partner and you have wasted your time,” bluntly declared the expert.
“You will know it with your ideal partner, and they will know it too,” he added.
Viewers were divided on Maddock’s claim, with some saying the cut-and-dried advice didn’t apply to every relationship.
Some said men can “love bomb” by falsely professing too quickly.
Meanwhile, others claimed that some relationships needed more time to deepen before a man could truly express his love.
“There are so many circumstances that could go into all of this,” one woman wrote.
“In reality, things are different and must be seen from a wider perspective.”
However, some commentators hit back, saying that women with low self-esteem often lose their expectations to stay in fruitless relationships.
“He’s right!” This is how situations develop”, said one. “Know your worth, ladies.”
Another agreed, saying she immediately clicked with her husband and was engaged just weeks later.
“I was engaged in six weeks, married in six months and still married 32 years,” said the lovely lady.
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